So your mule will be more than happy to just sit still, he will know how long the trail ahead is. Gaiting is the only way he will be allowed to move.
You won't likely be doing the let's chat thing with your neighbor brushoging a field. That comes later. Water and more water. During training the mules don't just cross creeks, they travel up and down them in preparation for your trail riding.

Believe it or not you will be leading your grand kids around with confidence by spring.

Priceless